New York + The Hamptons

Not Your
Mama's Parties

Unexpected celebrations for people who want to do things differently.

the philosophy

Not your typical party.

We create celebrations with personality — unexpected spaces, thoughtful details, great food, and ideas your guests haven't seen a hundred times before. From intimate dinners and showers to birthdays and weddings, every party starts with one question: how do we make this feel completely yours?

what we do

Three ways to work together.

Event Design

Concept, aesthetic, tablescape, decor, rentals, sourcing, and styling — the whole visual world of the day.

Planning + Coordination

Vendor sourcing, logistics, timelines, setup, and event-day coordination, start to finish.

Creative Consultations

Already planning something yourself? Book a one-on-one session for ideas, sourcing, logistics, or a second opinion.

limited availability

Planning a NYC wedding?

After planning a 170-person wedding in one of New York's most unconventional venues, I'm opening a limited number of 1:1 consultations for couples considering nontraditional NYC venues.

$75 30 minutes video or phone
Book a 30-Minute Consult

$75 via Venmo @juliadefilippis, sent after you book ✦

we can talk about

  • Raw-space and nontraditional venues
  • Realistic budgets for the venue you want
  • Vendors worth calling first
  • Rentals, logistics, and permits for raw spaces
  • What I'd do differently, honestly

recent work

A few things we've made.

photos coming soon!

wedding

A Black-Tie Wedding in Lower Manhattan

170 GUESTS · SURROGATE'S COURT · NEW YORK CITY

A marble courthouse landmark, not a ballroom — reimagined for a black-tie affair without losing the grandeur of the room. The concept leaned into what the space already had: soaring ceilings, court-worthy drama, and enough gravity to skip the usual wedding décor entirely.

Favorite details: a raw-space lighting plan built around the building's own architecture, and a seating layout that let 170 guests feel like they were at one long table instead of forty small ones.

photos coming soon!

birthday

One Drop Older

EAST HAMPTON · POOLSIDE BIRTHDAY

A lemon-soaked birthday by the pool — the kind of private Hamptons celebration that's less about a theme and more about a mood. Bright citrus color, easy food, and a party that photographed itself.

This is exactly the kind of celebration we love building: personal, a little unexpected, and built entirely around how the host actually wanted to spend the day.

more celebrations added as we go — this is a young portfolio with a very clear point of view ✦

let's make a thing of it

Birthday? Shower? Dinner? Wedding? Something we haven't thought of yet?

Tell us what you're celebrating.

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